Guys, if you want a second date with a woman you need to make sure you have a great first date.
In this article, we’ll show you 7 things you can do on your first date to give you 7 ways to improve your chances for a second date. You’ll find that it’s all about details.
Picking her up or meeting her on time is a great start to a successful first date. You show her that you value her time as much as you do yours.
2. Be a gentleman
Open doors for her, even the car door if she’s receptive. Allow her to order first. Even if she looks hot, control your expressions. Try not to stare at her. It could make her uncomfortable.
3. Table Manners
Some guys forget that they’re not at home. Don’t just woof down your food, and try not to make a mess. Part of enjoying your dinner is about leaving out the sideshow.
4. Enjoyable and Tasteful conversation
You probably know enough about your date to make small talk. Find some common interests that you have with her. It could be work, hobbies, favorite music or TV shows. There’s bound to be something you can talk about, maybe for quite a while. The best way to start a conversation is by asking open-ended questions, so don’t just drone on about yourself!
Whatever you do, keep sex out of this conversation. It could be a real turn off.
5. Personal interest
Basically, you want to treat her like a friend. If you end up marrying this lady one day, you and she are going to be each other’s best friend.
If she has something stressful going on, and she feels comfortable, draw her out and really listen. Yep, we said it – listen. Resist the temptation to solve her problem. She may just need to unload. Let her.
6. Let your yes mean yes
If you tell her you’re going to do something, keep your promise. For example, like many women, if she wants to be brought straight home, bring her straight home. Period.
If you have another stop to make afterward, tell her before the date. Who knows? Maybe she’ll go along, but don’t surprise her.
Any deviation could chuck your second date chances out the window.
7. Respectful goodnight
Remember, the woman you marry one day is going to be your friend for life. Treat her like one. Don’t be too anxious to get a goodnight kiss. If she asks you to, don’t throw the gentleman out of the way. Keep it short, sweet and respectful.
As far as second dates go, it could be as simple as asking, even at the end of your first date. If it hasn’t come by now, maybe this is your chance to find out.
So it really isn’t so tough. Don’t make it any tougher. Just follow these tips, have a great first date, and we’re sure you will get a second date.